Mommy Friends

I am a mom. I am normal just like anyone else. I have flaws. I am no better then any other mom out there. We are all just kids running around trying to control other kids all while trying to adult.

Us moms are supposed to stick together. Our job is tough and nobody understands that better then a fellow mom.

But sometimes its hard to be with some moms. Perhaps they are still young and somewhat dumb. Perhaps their child annoys you. Perhaps they have no order and it makes you CRAZY.

What do you do? Can you dump a friend like you would a significant other? Is it against mom code to say bye to a fellow mother?

I feel guilty but it’s so exhausting. The complaining, the neediness, the mess, the screaming, the endless feedings to a child bigger then her!

My house is generally calm, simple, clean. We have nice things that we (my husband) work hard for. I like the calm of my house.

Sure I have a toddler and of course we have crabby days where she don’t listen to a single word I say. I wanna cry and scream and pull my hair out! But I always do my best to remain calm. I defuse the situation and find a way to move past it.

But when she is here…I feel like all of those emotions all at once, the entire time. And I want to just tell her about life and how she needs to fix hers!

But i try to be a nice person, a good friend and helpful. So if I try to be these things…Can I dump my friend?

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